Today is Orphan Sunday, and churches all over the world are making a point to talk about the orphan crisis and where the church fits in bringing healing to the needs of these children. The focus of Orphan Sunday could be for many a starting […]
“How do you guard your heart??”
I was asked this question a number of times while fostering, and I think what people meant by it was this: How do you keep from getting too attached to a baby that may not stay with you forever?
People generally assumed my intentions […]
“We’re praying that mom gets her baby back!”
My friend was told these words one Sunday morning when a man she knew approached her at church soon after she began fostering a baby.
Moments later, someone else stopped her in the halls at church to offer […]
My experience has been that fostering is all about surrender. If you decide to walk this road, God will ask you to say “yes” to some things before you even know what you’re saying “yes” to. You rarely know what you’re going to get. […]
“Don’t foster-adopt to get your designer child.”
I heard leading adoption/attachment expert Karyn Purvis offered this warning to prospective adoptive families to challenge the different motivations we might have in pursuing adoption. I think what she was getting at is this : Do you think […]
“We think God is telling us to foster and maybe adopt.”
I listen excitedly as my friend surprises me with this new direction God has very suddenly given their family.
“I’m scared,” she says. “But I’m more scared not to do what God is telling us […]
I had Africans in my home this week, and that just doesn’t happen every day.
Earlier this week, we hosted two Ugandan girls in our home. Gloria (age 17) and Patiance (age 8), members of the Uganda Children’s Choir with Parental Care Ministries, stayed with us […]